Ok short story ... SO has no ambition. He sees no problem with living with my parents instead of getting a place of our own. He sees no point in getting a fulltime job with benefits for his kids. He is ok with the medioker and I cannot be attracted to someone like that anymore. He is all about himself and what he likes to do and leaves me and the twins to watch him. Sorry this does not make me want to be physical with him when his greatest concern for his family is the next time the kids go down for a nap. He will take any excuse not to be around us durring his free time.
I am currently going to school and am trying to find a job so that I can prove him to be in the wrong .
Answer by butterflyblue19 at 2:44 PM on Aug. 18, 2010
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Answer by bellaitaliapicz at 2:47 PM on Aug. 18, 2010
It's understandable but your attitude and the way you are responding isn't helping. You are doing things to try and prove him wrong, not a positive or helpful attitude for improving a relationship. If you don't have sex with him and are disgusted with him of course he doesn't want to be around.
You have at least 3 choices. You can go on as it is. You can kick him out and be a single mom. You can try and improve your relationship. That may take accepting him as he is for now. If you can do that and see the best in him he may do better. You may need counsling.
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