Ok here's the deal. I haven't been with my ex since I was three months pregnant. He met a woman online when our baby was 21 days old. After two months of dating, they moved in together to play house :-) Anyway, of course I have a problem with this and think it's unmoral, however I have swallowed it. My 6 month old baby is over there about 50% of the time and of course the new girlfriend is there.
Here's my problem and PLEASE let me know if I am being unreasonable. I have asked the dad to be there at all times when he has our baby. I said I would be comfortable with his new girlfriend watching my child for no longer than two hours at a time if he has to go into work or has errands to run. I think this is being MORE than reasonable if you ask me. If it's longer than that, either don't take her or bring her to her mom.
Let me know what you think about this moms! Would love some feedback/opinions/advice :-)
Answer by ObbyDobbie at 6:39 PM on Aug. 18, 2010
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Answer by DreainCO at 6:41 PM on Aug. 18, 2010
Answer by silversmom at 6:42 PM on Aug. 18, 2010
Answer by DesertRose75 at 6:42 PM on Aug. 18, 2010
It sounds reasonable to me. If I hadn't met the woman, I would have a huge problem with her being around my child alone for ANY ammount of time.
However, I think that it would be best to rethink your issue of immorality.
Answer by twin_mommy at 6:43 PM on Aug. 18, 2010
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Answer by Orionsgirl at 6:44 PM on Aug. 18, 2010
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Answer by hsmominky at 6:47 PM on Aug. 18, 2010