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Should i stay or go?

me and mi babyfather have been togeth only 2 yrs and we now have a 6month old he lives with me but recently he says he is unhappy but dont want to leave me he just wants female friends.....should i let him have his FEMALE friends or should i just be done with the relationship?

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Crazy_in_Love07

Asked by Crazy_in_Love07 at 9:57 PM on Aug. 18, 2010 in Relationships

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  • What KIND of female friends? JUST friends or friends with benefits? If the latter, be done with that relationship.
    Misteh

    Answer by Misteh at 9:58 PM on Aug. 18, 2010

  • be done
    mommy_of_two388

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 9:58 PM on Aug. 18, 2010

  • Put the children first.

    It doesn't sound as though he is someone to spend the rest of your life with. Find out your rights- child support mainly, and move on with your life.
    Bmat

    Answer by Bmat at 9:59 PM on Aug. 18, 2010

  • he want just regular female friends but i believe that can lead to something more
    Crazy_in_Love07

    Comment by Crazy_in_Love07 (original poster) at 10:00 PM on Aug. 18, 2010

  • Hmmm friends with bene? I say let him go. He sounds immature. Time to move on.
    mmmegan38

    Answer by mmmegan38 at 10:01 PM on Aug. 18, 2010

  • maybe you should have a little trust, if he hasnt done anything up until now, trust him, if he has cheated get out of there

    mommy_of_two388

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 10:01 PM on Aug. 18, 2010

  • theres nothing wrong with having friends of the oppisite sex but if he is wanting more than that then i would walk.
    laura970

    Answer by laura970 at 10:02 PM on Aug. 18, 2010

  • You deserve to be treated way better than that! i would be Done!
    daisyb

    Answer by daisyb at 10:15 PM on Aug. 18, 2010

  • assuming he hasnt cheated in the past, i think he is simply trying to tell you that you are being a bit too controling and it is pushing him away. having friends of the opposite sex does not necessarily lead to cheating. unless you have some legitimate reason to not trust him, i think you should back off and let him have his female friends. im not bashing, just trying to help you out, but you probably are overly controling in other aspects of the relationship. you need to take a good look at your relationship and figure out areas where you could cut him some slack because i suspect you are pushing him away. he is a grown man and does not need someone to tell him how to live his life. give him a little freedom and, if the relationship is really going to last, you will both be much happier.
    LoriaAnn

    Answer by LoriaAnn at 10:21 PM on Aug. 18, 2010

  • ummm he has cheated b4
    Crazy_in_Love07

    Comment by Crazy_in_Love07 (original poster) at 11:07 PM on Aug. 18, 2010

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