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does your husband help with u ever tell him if he doesnt help he dont get no sex


Asked by Anonymous at 3:46 PM on Aug. 19, 2010 in Relationships

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  • My husband freely, willingly volunteers and just jumps in and does housework. He has learned over the years that; the more he helps out, the more time I have for HIM and him alone. The less tired I am, so the more likely I am to do things with HIM, the less stressed I am ,so I'm more likely to enjoy my time with him. He helps me because he wants to, he knows how much I appreciate it, and because this is his home to.

    In 25 years of marriage. I have never used sex as a punishment or reward system. For me personally, that would be childish, passive aggressive and counter productive. So it's not something I have ever done or would ever do.

    Answer by pixie_trix at 5:11 PM on Aug. 19, 2010

  • i never tell my hubby no sex if he doesn't help with housework. i don't think sex should be used as a bargaining tool in a relationship.

    Answer by tanper29 at 3:48 PM on Aug. 19, 2010

  • HaHa! No way would I say that..why would I punish myself? lol

    Answer by kimberlyinberea at 3:47 PM on Aug. 19, 2010

  • No he doesn't help and no I don't withhold sex from him. It's not a bargaining tool to me.

    Answer by mama2my2girls at 3:49 PM on Aug. 19, 2010

  • isnt that like blackmail

    Answer by michelle34231 at 3:51 PM on Aug. 19, 2010

  • No my SO volunteers to help around the house. He just does it.

    Answer by DesertRose75 at 3:47 PM on Aug. 19, 2010

  • u are lucky super mommy i get my dh to do stuff when i tell him i wont cook if u dont help

    Answer by cnoble927 at 3:48 PM on Aug. 19, 2010

  • He keep his messes picked up, does yard work, helps cook, etc.

    I would NEVER hold out on him to try to get him to do something, how childish. You do realize that is grounds for divorce.

    Answer by ObbyDobbie at 3:49 PM on Aug. 19, 2010

  • I never ask my BF to help around the house. He will do certain things on his own such as take out the trash & mate the socks (because he knows how much I hate to do those) but I have NEVER asked him to do anything, & never will. And I absolutely do NOT withhold sex from him at ANY time, even if he did not take out the trash or mate the socks.

    Answer by stressedmomma13 at 3:50 PM on Aug. 19, 2010

  • He helps occassionally, but I never withold sex as a punishment. That's immature and inaffective.

    Answer by JazzlikeMraz at 3:50 PM on Aug. 19, 2010