My SO and I have had this discussion a couple of times now. We have been together for three years and married for a year and a half. I am way more interested in sex than he is, and have reached the point that I wont even initiate sex because of the fear of rejection or him falling asleep ( yes it has happened). I have talked to him about how I feel, its not even so much sex as it is I just want to be held, I want to feel loved and needed. Even when we kiss it is always a quick peck and its over. I dont know what else to do. I am over weight and that has always been a big issue with my self esteem, but I have been losing weight and he swears he doesnt care abotu the weight, as long as I am healthy. What can I do to get him to realize how much I am hurt by this.Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 8:12 AM on Oct. 8, 2008 in Relationships
Answer by Anonymous at 9:54 AM on Oct. 8, 2008
Answer by Anonymous at 10:06 AM on Oct. 8, 2008
Be open & honest with him about how you feel and about what you need from him. but also keep in mind that he may feel as though you don't understand how he really feels and if this is the case your relationship may become even harder to fix & understand. He may not be reacting to your needs because he feels as though your not noticing his feelings as well. so just sit down and talk to him.
Answer by Anonymous at 11:00 AM on Oct. 8, 2008
Answer by kathyartist2007 at 11:04 AM on Oct. 8, 2008
Answer by Anonymous at 9:09 PM on Oct. 8, 2008