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why do i not want to do IT as much as he does

i am a pluse size girl and not very happy with my self but he says he loves me the way i am. help me

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Asked by jimenez123415 at 12:12 AM on Aug. 20, 2010 in Relationships

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  • go on a diet, exercise and loose weight. youll start to feel more confident and enjoy sex more.. plus exercise realases chemicals in your body called endorphins which make you feel happy & good throughout the day, like when your having sex...

    Answer by PURPULbutterfly at 12:13 AM on Aug. 20, 2010

  • i have the same problem!!!

    Answer by echokays at 12:13 AM on Aug. 20, 2010

  • Sweetie if you are not happy with your weight then start exercising(walking) and eating right so that you can begin to fell better about yourself...its ok if he loves you the way u are...but what's important is that u love make a promise and a commitment to yourself to do whats needed to feel better about yourself...GOOD LUCK!!!

    Answer by TezMoM at 12:17 AM on Aug. 20, 2010

  • i agree with TezMoM! It is Important to feel good about You! We all go through not wanting to have Sex as much as our husbands do sometimes, regardless of our weight- i have been going through it for 17 years!LOL

    Answer by daisyb at 12:26 AM on Aug. 20, 2010

  • get your confidence back, diet, exercise, feel good about you, and everything else will fall into place.


    Answer by koensmom22 at 2:31 AM on Aug. 20, 2010

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