fake til you make I say. Just pretend that you think that you & soon you will start to believe it. But more than anything, make YOURSELF a priority. Get up a little earlier, workout, shower, put on make up, fix your hair, put on a cute outfit. Yes, those are for your outer appearance, but studies have shown that if you put an effort to look put together, you feel better about yourself. Make your relationship a PRIORITY. Dirty dishes can wait, the laundry can wait, your child does not need your undivided attention every waking moment. They need to learn independence anyhow. Carve out 20 minutes a day for your SO & just talk about something that interests the both of you. No talk about kids, stress, etc. These may not seem like ways to feel sexy, but trust me, when you connect with your mate in new ways, you WILL feel sexy.
at 12:25 AM on Aug. 20, 2010