I agree with the previous posters. The people that care for the child need to be consistently working with the mother. Your little one's schedule needs to be completely consistent, or he will backpedal - I have to set a timer to go off every 30 minutes during the day to take Glenn potty (or we make frequent stops if we're driving somewhere, shopping, etc.) because the consistency is so important.
If your child is visiting someone and they are not willing to work with him on potty training in the SAME way you were, I would tell them that you don't feel comfortable with the visit until he is finished potty training or until they decide to work with you.
at 2:41 AM on Aug. 20, 2010