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You all do realize men don't need a computer do see porn (sexual images) don't you?

Before computers, they had books and magazines and good old imagination, even some bars. So, if you bar them from looking at it at home, you haven't won any major battles, if they wanna visualize something or see it, they'll find a way. There's alot of ways to get that stuff that leaves no trail, keeps them happy, and you happy in blissful ignorance and off their backs. Seriously no offense, I just think people forget about the old-school ways to do things.

If they do use a computer, they can delete history, wash away all cookies, use another computer completely... I think if you talk to them nicely they will respond more than just ordering them and yelling at them. Try and carrot instead of a stick. Again even if they stop doing it on the computer, you might start noticing them taking extra long showers... :)


Asked by Zoeyis at 7:46 AM on Aug. 20, 2010 in Relationships

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  • yes.. and all they have to do is walk down the street...or head the nearest pool or beach. plenty of porn there. (even if its not intercourse) oh and some parks too

    Answer by Aasiyah at 8:13 AM on Aug. 20, 2010

  • The way you prevent your husband from looking at porn of any kind is to marry a man of character and dignity who simply is not into that kind of thing for any reason. Then you do not have to ever be concerned about it. There are men alive today who even when they happen to see a half-naked woman in a restaurant or on the street will immediately lock eyes with their wives and refuse to even take a second glance at the naked one. I know that just sounds impossible to many, but it is the absolute truth. You can raise your boys to be men like that, but it sure is going to be harder in a home where it's not modeled for them by their dad. The way to put a stop to this insanity is for women to learn how to discern character of men before they hop into bed with them and make children, which just happens to be the way God designed marriage to be done in the first place. Not all men look at porn and that's a fact.

    Answer by NannyB. at 8:26 AM on Aug. 20, 2010

  • i say join them..=)

    Answer by shay1130 at 7:49 AM on Aug. 20, 2010

  • why would i stop him?

    Answer by sati769leigh at 7:49 AM on Aug. 20, 2010

  • That is not an issue in this house.

    Answer by pinkdragon36 at 7:50 AM on Aug. 20, 2010

  • And is it that hard to believe that not all Men are the same? Not all of them want to watch porn or imagine porn. I know DH doesnt, how do I know this? Simple really. I know my husband, and I know the type of Man he is, and his morals and standards. Porn and masterbation are not things HE finds appropriate in our marriage. But if you need to believe that all men do it, and all men are alike, then go for it.

    Answer by RheaF at 8:22 AM on Aug. 20, 2010

  • Ummmm Yeah

    Answer by itsmesteph11 at 7:49 AM on Aug. 20, 2010

  • What isn't an issue, everyone has a sex drive. You can't possibly control what's in someone's head. They may play it cool, but be thinking all kinds of things to themselves. lol

    Comment by Zoeyis (original poster) at 7:51 AM on Aug. 20, 2010


    Answer by maureen555 at 7:54 AM on Aug. 20, 2010

  • Yelling doesn't get women what they really want with a man regrdless of the issue. Better to work things out as a couple and agree to something you both can live with. Honestly its better on a computer that the kids can't access than in the mattress where the kids might stumble across it.

    Answer by bjane01 at 9:52 AM on Aug. 20, 2010