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Seriously thinking about getting a divorce but dont know where to start. Can someone help me who has been through it before?

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Tanisha709

Asked by Tanisha709 at 2:35 PM on Aug. 20, 2010 in Relationships

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  • Go to your local court house, get the pappers, fill them out, and file them.
    elly25

    Answer by elly25 at 2:36 PM on Aug. 20, 2010

  • What are the reasons why you are thinking about divorce?
    JGRIMMER

    Answer by JGRIMMER at 2:36 PM on Aug. 20, 2010

  • Find a divorce lawyer and talk to them about it. We did everything through the lawyer.
    DesertRose75

    Answer by DesertRose75 at 2:36 PM on Aug. 20, 2010

  • The first step would be to contact some family law attorneys in your area most will give you the first visit free you can go and ask all kinds of questions.
    okmommy08

    Answer by okmommy08 at 2:37 PM on Aug. 20, 2010

  • Do you belong to/go to a church? I would recommend getting counsel before moving forward legally.
    blessedwithree

    Answer by blessedwithree at 2:45 PM on Aug. 20, 2010

  • unless your husband is a very reasonable man, and the two of you completely agree on all aspects of your divorce (or can mediate it), you'll need a lawyer. Also, if there are children involved, again- you'll need a lawyer.

    It also depends on the reason for divorce how you would proceed forward. In short, call the court house and ask what papers to file if you are going it without a lawyer, or if you decide to have council present, start shopping around.

    ObbyDobbie

    Answer by ObbyDobbie at 2:58 PM on Aug. 20, 2010

  • BTW- church will not fix a failed marriage.
    ObbyDobbie

    Answer by ObbyDobbie at 2:59 PM on Aug. 20, 2010

  • First be absolutely sure that this is what you want and then call a law firm orcounty court house and proceed from there. But what ever you do, Good Luck!
    debnich501960

    Answer by debnich501960 at 3:30 PM on Aug. 20, 2010

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