my boyfriend and i are splitting up after 4 years of living together solely because we cant not afford our bills next month and our lights will be getting turned off unless we can come up with $300 in the next week, so i asked my mom if i could move in with her temp. until i could get an apartment, and she told me that if i did my son would have to stay with his father at his other grandmothers house bc my son is very roudy and she has fragile things in her home that can be easily broken, and he wrote on her table today (hes 2) and she doesnt want him destroying her house. so im in a crisis and she is only worried about how my son will make her house messy....im a little ticked but i dont want to hold it against her. what should i do?
Asked by Anonymous at 6:36 PM on Aug. 20, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by figaro8895 at 8:56 PM on Aug. 20, 2010
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Answer by leah_rai at 6:40 PM on Aug. 20, 2010
As much as I would like to see her point of view...as a mother I can't. It sounds like you are in somewhat of a crisis. What she should of said to you is "sure but there are some rules we need to set for the little one...I do have alot of fragile things and you're going to have to watch him more closely when you're home..and so forth...", I would never ask my child to split up from their child, specially if it's only temporary, she's the grandmother and should be more than willing to provide a roof for you and her grand baby. But that's just me...I would be hurt.
Answer by LuvmyFam6 at 6:50 PM on Aug. 20, 2010
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