I have a major work problem, I work as a sales assistant at an investment firm. I was sitting in my office when I heard one of the stock brokers mention that he was in my office and that the oldest sales assistant (me) is kinda hot, and that when I was sitting at my desk he saw my yellow lace thong hanging out, He obviously did there was no way he could have known that. The other kid he told this too said like 2 years ago I use to bang her it was awesome. My heat Jumped out of my throat, I just turned 40 and yes two years ago I had a fling with one of the stock brokers, it was short lived and stupid, I was in my late 30's he was probably 26 at the time. I was all about sex and I regret it. But what can I do im so embarrased he is telling people. I cant complain to my boss because hes a top producer and he can get my fired, I have a son starting college!! What do I do?Answer Question
Answer by iamcafemom83 at 8:59 PM on Aug. 20, 2010
Answer by elizabiza at 9:00 PM on Aug. 20, 2010
I would talk to the dude, tell him what you heard & ask him if he would please keep it secret. I personally could not work with someone i used to have sex with ESPECIALLY if he's talking to others about it. I would have quit after the sexual fiasco. But, you are both adults. You should be able to talk to him & explain to him that it is disrespectful to you that he tells people about your personal business. As far as the other guy goes, i would just keep a distance from him.. Give him the cols shoulder & keep ut strictly business with him.
You could also tell the other dude that you heard the conversation & that you didn't appreciate it. Let him know it bothered you.
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