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Can people change?

I love this guy. I really truly love him. But he is not boyfriend material. He's damaged and treats women like toys. But I know he cares about me. So is it possible for him to change and not treat me like all the other ones? Oh and he doesn't treat me bad now. I'm just not sure he'll ever be capable of a relationship.

 
fairyinabubble

Asked by fairyinabubble at 11:14 PM on Aug. 20, 2010 in Relationships

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Answers (19)
  • They can change but on their own terms only, and it usually takes awhile. Change will not happen overnight.
    Glamourina

    Answer by Glamourina at 11:15 PM on Aug. 20, 2010

  • Sorry, but I have to say no in this case. Just my opinion, so good luck.
    dancinintherain

    Answer by dancinintherain at 11:17 PM on Aug. 20, 2010

  • I've never seen it. They might briefly change for a few days, weeks, or even months, but sooner or later, they will change back.
    m-avi

    Answer by m-avi at 11:19 PM on Aug. 20, 2010

  • They can change if they are willing to change
    mommy_of_two388

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 11:19 PM on Aug. 20, 2010

  • I agree w/ dancinintherain & m-avi on this one.
    xxMasonsMommaxx

    Answer by xxMasonsMommaxx at 11:20 PM on Aug. 20, 2010

  • I have to say that IMO, people can change but only if they want to. Usually it is just a show that people put on for as long as it takes to get what they want and then they return to their old ways.
    hsmominky

    Answer by hsmominky at 11:39 PM on Aug. 20, 2010

  • I don't believe people change, but they are capable of growth. Behavior can be altered by time, experience, etc. but what we've done is part of who we are. Be guarded if what you say is true.
    2boimommy

    Answer by 2boimommy at 11:50 PM on Aug. 20, 2010

  • When you are in a relationship & you love your partner,You don't try to change them You hellp them with their issues.
    bvannkissy

    Answer by bvannkissy at 12:14 AM on Aug. 21, 2010

  • I'm convinced that most men never change.
    cherinicole87

    Answer by cherinicole87 at 12:26 AM on Aug. 21, 2010

  • Nope, he will not change........I will never forget the advice my father gave me when I met my husband at the age of 15............He said, "The boy you love now, will be the man you love later"..........My own father was telling me as a man himself, that men are the same NO MATTER WHAT AGE......good luck, sister......
    cfh72

    Answer by cfh72 at 12:32 AM on Aug. 21, 2010

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