become more independent?
My husband is working and is in school fulltime and I find myself struggling to do things on my own. I know I can't demand too much of his time because of all the stuff he has on his plate....so how can I start to become more independent without the feeling of "he should be helping me"???? I basically need to be able to do EVERYTHING on my own...and right now i'm very dependent.
By the way, I have 4 kids under 4 years old. I have a mini van, but how would I handle them all by myself at the grocery store or other places without going insane?
Answer by SAHMinIL2 at 11:53 AM on Aug. 21, 2010
I've been a single mom who has been married for 17 years. I somehow found a way. Try being in your position but never given any cash and get lectured if you want to go somewhere without the kids.... You need to find some other mom friends who can help you out. Grocery shop where they have a space to watch kids. My grocery store has a great sitting service! Or you could bulk shop on Sundays and have your hubby watch the kids for an hour. Just because he has so much on his plate doesn't me that you have to suffer.... he can give up a couple hours a week....
Answer by WoodWitch at 11:56 AM on Aug. 21, 2010
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