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how can you get over your first love?

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Asked by glo360 at 12:54 PM on Aug. 21, 2010 in Relationships

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  • i dont think u ever do for sure all u can do is move on and get on with the rest of your life

    Answer by alyssa1 at 12:58 PM on Aug. 21, 2010

  • time. It does go away.

    Answer by lovinangels at 1:00 PM on Aug. 21, 2010

  • find your second love?

    Answer by Fistandantalus at 1:01 PM on Aug. 21, 2010

  • your true first love is the man that loves you back as much as u loved him so just let time pass and remember dont rush into anything right now your vulnerable and keep on eye out for your true love

    Answer by cnoble927 at 1:45 PM on Aug. 21, 2010

  • I concur with the other women. YOU NEVER GET OVER YOUR FIRST LOVE. No matter what they did to you and how it ended... There is just something about them that will haunt you the rest of your life :( unfortunately . Even when you have found the love of your life who treats you like a queen and gives you all you could ever want (emotionally, mentally, sexually, etc.). There is no way to escape your love of your first love. Just don't tell men that we never get over the first love and we will all be ok lol :D

    Answer by agriffinmom4 at 2:42 PM on Aug. 21, 2010

  • For me it was easy, I divorced him after 2 months of marriage.

    Answer by debnich501960 at 4:08 PM on Aug. 21, 2010

  • yeah it is hard to move on but you will move on in time just take it slow enjoy being by yourself & being with your child & then when the time is right you will find love again

    Answer by Ricanmami1 at 6:33 PM on Aug. 21, 2010

  • Time heals all wounds. You need to get a hobby, join a gym or social club, be selfish for a while, to take your mind off of your ex and then get back out there!!! :o)

    Answer by LoriKeet at 11:27 PM on Aug. 21, 2010

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