Been here since April. S was renting a house that foreclosed. S has only a commission job, wife, none. S iswaiting for big check. S & W taking over, getting rude about it. The 3 yr.old runs everything, I'm not allowed to discipline. W shuts me up in front of child. Every time I ask, S says soon we'll have lots of $$, then you'll be satisfied, so stop complaining. W says I should be grateful for her (cooking) help. I don't need it. I'm getting fat. I work FT w/ 2 other G kids from late daughter. Plenty of room in my big house but extremely dirty & messy. W invites teenage dtr, boyfriend, (livs w/)+18 m.o.+ 7 mo preggars to dinner w/o asking. I'm not to complain. Help!! Just want them OUT!Answer Question
Answer by jennie495 at 6:54 PM on Aug. 21, 2010
Answer by shanlaree at 6:55 PM on Aug. 21, 2010
I agree... It is YOUR house and to be treated with such disrespect in your own home after helping them.... I'd be kicking to the curb tomorrow.... give them a deadline.
Answer by WoodWitch at 7:03 PM on Aug. 21, 2010
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Answer by Scuba at 8:06 PM on Aug. 21, 2010
If you want them out give them a deadline to get out. However, while they are living with you, make up some new family/house rules. Tell them that they are to abide by them, and if not, there will be consequences. Make them, you and a third party sign a contract about what will be done in the house. Once rules are established, either they will move out on their own or things will get better. Make sure they put money aside for bills and savings. There also has to be certain rules for the all the kids, even the 3 year old. He can't be allowed to do what he wants because his mother says so. Of course, there will be more RESPECT!! Demand it, if not they will continue to walk all over you. Like I said, they will either move out or things will get better. Good luck.
Answer by krissyvelazquez at 9:46 PM on Aug. 21, 2010
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