Honestly just stay separated and try to get the visits back and forth, however favor is granted to the person which handles money sometimes, and this is more of a ''stability "" if it's handled for a length of time, but for getting custody solely, and you want to make sure you get it, ... the only advice is truly a lawyers advice.. They will see that the one who has been in standing with work or better stable at the time- you- sign. If it's in question just don't sign for a very long time, and keep it going until he goes broke, in other words make him pay for the legal stuff and have it that way in the papers, and don't sign until he agrees to pay the fees. ALL OF THEM ( he will pay anything as long as he thinks he'll get custody. ) Men don't generally want to just have you sign over rights, they like the game solely for the game, so to get it done quick, don't hold your breath.
at 7:22 PM on Aug. 21, 2010