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If one of your best friends liked a guy but the guy liked you instead... And you liked him... would you date him?

Is there a girl's code anymore?

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35yoamom

Asked by 35yoamom at 4:25 PM on Aug. 22, 2010 in Relationships

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  • Liked him like a crush,or do/did they have a flirting thing going on? I'd ask her what she thinks.
    butterflyblue19

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 4:26 PM on Aug. 22, 2010

  • ask your friend if it would mess with your friendship.
    cassie_m

    Answer by cassie_m at 4:27 PM on Aug. 22, 2010

  • We will go with... liked him like a crush but told you and him.
    35yoamom

    Comment by 35yoamom (original poster) at 4:28 PM on Aug. 22, 2010

  • I would pass on the guy, friendship is more important IMHO
    blessedwithree

    Answer by blessedwithree at 4:29 PM on Aug. 22, 2010

  • so he knows? hmmmmm....I'd still ask her and follow what she suggests. Chicks before d*icks and all that!
    butterflyblue19

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 4:30 PM on Aug. 22, 2010

  • LOL Butter!
    35yoamom

    Comment by 35yoamom (original poster) at 4:32 PM on Aug. 22, 2010

  • I would leave him alone.
    pinkdragon36

    Answer by pinkdragon36 at 4:35 PM on Aug. 22, 2010

  • sounds like high school
    charlotsomtimes

    Answer by charlotsomtimes at 4:52 PM on Aug. 22, 2010

  • Meh, talk with her. If it was just a crush, then she may be over it. Or she may concede if she knows you and he like each other. She may decide YOUR friendship is worth more to HER then her silly little crush on a guy that isn't crushing on her in return. If it bothers her, then don't date him. Right now, it's that simple. But if you let it go on, it could get really, really high school on you fast.
    Raine2001

    Answer by Raine2001 at 5:03 PM on Aug. 22, 2010

  • No I wouldn't. Even if my friend told me to go for it, it would be opening a possibility for drama and all other kinds of messes down the line. Good friendship is a precious thing and shouldn't be jeopardized by a guy that is probably playing games, or any guy for that matter.
    nicolemstacy

    Answer by nicolemstacy at 5:28 PM on Aug. 22, 2010

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