To me, there is a difference (& my hubs says lol) .. Some men can learn to control themselves, so that they do not "cum"/physically ejaculate but still have the pleasure sensations of orgasm so that they last longer during intercourse.
Just like some women can orgasm without ejaculating and other women orgasm & ejaculate.
To me orgasm is more involved than just the physical release of ejaculation (both male and female). Orgasms contain more sensation/feeling and it takes more than just physical mechanics of sex in order to have a true orgasm. A physical release/ejaculation, yeah you can get that from just the physical mechanics of sex. But a true, toe curling, orgasms involve more components than that. Usually things like: mental connection & mental stimulation, emotional connection & emotional stimulation, along with the physical mechanics are what it takes to have orgasms along with the physical release of ejaculation.
at 4:45 PM on Aug. 22, 2010