I have been in an open relationship with this guy for about a year now and the relationship was going great. That is until my ex-husband (the father of my children) came back into my life. Sex with the ex-husband is like a drug, I have never had better nor will I think I ever have better. To make a long story short the ex stated that he wants to start over and work things out with us. The way we make love is amazing and the connection is still there. I know that we had problems in the past which is why we are divorced but I cant help but want him back but I am also in love with my boyfriend. Im so confused right now.
Asked by Anonymous at 9:38 AM on Aug. 23, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by samurai_chica at 9:45 AM on Aug. 23, 2010
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Answer by Jessie104 at 12:01 PM on Aug. 23, 2010
Answer by xavierlogan09 at 11:45 AM on Aug. 23, 2010
I have an open marriage, if you ever need someone to talk to, message me. But right now, just take things real slow. Make no decisions and be upfront and honest with both men, that they are still in your life. It's perfectly normal to fall in love with both. Your not strange for doing so. But you've got to let these heady emotions pass a bit before makings a decision, be it kept them both or to choose one over the other. But I want you to remember something, there is a difference in loving someone and being able to live with someone. And if your ex hasn't changed enough from what caused the divorce in the first place, maybe it's better to love from a distance instead of living under the same roof. Take your time and take it slow.
Answer by isabellalecour at 2:04 PM on Aug. 23, 2010
Answer by Fistandantalus at 10:43 AM on Aug. 23, 2010
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