Im a 22 year old mom and am married to a very hot hot hot husband! Women always drool over him! i would suppose becuase i snagged him im somewhat good looking too, but I don feel like it. Especialy having had a baby. I used to be a 5'9" 120 pounder. now umm pudgy tummy. i hate it! Its very difficult for me to feel sexy and attractive for him. I feel like Im just plain, boring, and gross. My DH never mentions it, but he used to sneek behind my back, do the porn thing, etc. that really hurt me and how I felt about myself. He hasnt done it since, but we rarely have sex and hes gone alllll the time. He loves me, its not that. but i feel like im ugly to him. I dont have the energy to get all dolled up. Or Work out, which he likes in women. he used to tell me to go work out. what do i do, whos in the same boat with me. what have you done, to build your esteem back up? Advice, thoughts, ill take them all.Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 9:48 PM on Oct. 8, 2008 in Relationships
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You have to start with yourself. You need to feel attractive and happy for people to see you that way. You just had a baby and that's something you should be very proud of and should boost your self esteem. I went on long walks with my baby everyday, sometime twice. I always eat somewhat healthy and tried to update my wardrobe with couple things to feel "prettier". But I was extremely happy with everything around and the positivity over powered the maybe-not -so perfect body at that time. Chin up.
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