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Is cyber flirting cheating?

If your man was flirting with "friends online" would you consider it cheating?

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 12:35 PM on Aug. 23, 2010 in Relationships

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  • funny thing is, I would tell someone else yes I consider this cheating but my husband dows this a lot and while it really bothers me, I have never once told him that I feel cheated on.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:36 PM on Aug. 23, 2010

  • Yes if he was hiding it behind my back.
    Jademom07

    Answer by Jademom07 at 12:36 PM on Aug. 23, 2010

  • If you are doing something you wouldn't want your spouse to know about, its cheating.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:37 PM on Aug. 23, 2010

  • Yeah- "forsaking all others"
    lovinangels

    Answer by lovinangels at 12:37 PM on Aug. 23, 2010

  • my man tells me when someone is trying to flirt with him so i can be part of the fun when he flirts back. however if a couple are playing games and hiding flirting from eachother that is EMOTIONAL CHEATING to me
    sati769leigh

    Answer by sati769leigh at 12:37 PM on Aug. 23, 2010

  • Nope. Flirting is one thing.. Having sex is another
    lilmoosesmom

    Answer by lilmoosesmom at 12:38 PM on Aug. 23, 2010

  • If you have to ask, then you already know the answer.

    SleepingBeautee

    Answer by SleepingBeautee at 12:38 PM on Aug. 23, 2010

  • I think the sharing of affections with anyone other than the husband or wife is being unfaithful to the vows that have been made. There is something in there that says something like "forsaking all others." I believe that to mean what it says and it doesn't matter what the form of the "others" is.
    NannyB.

    Answer by NannyB. at 12:38 PM on Aug. 23, 2010

  • Anything you wouldn't want your partner to see is cheating. You already know why.
    LindaClement

    Answer by LindaClement at 12:39 PM on Aug. 23, 2010

  • No, I wouldn't consider it cheating. If he was talking about hooking up with them, then that's a different story.
    PoisonousBlonde

    Answer by PoisonousBlonde at 12:43 PM on Aug. 23, 2010

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