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do you cover up your bad feelings about yourself by...

being mean, rude, sarcastic and spiteful to others?
if yes why? please I welcome anon to this if its too painful for you to say why you feel so bad about yourself...


Asked by Bearsjen at 3:11 PM on Aug. 23, 2010 in Relationships

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Answers (8)
  • No. When I'm feeling bad about myself, it's obvious I'm feeling bad about myself. I vocalize it, I guess. Or I just stay to myself, I don't take it out on everyone else.

    Answer by Raine2001 at 4:35 PM on Aug. 23, 2010

  • Nope, just because I feel bad doesnt mean I want others to feel bad. Sometimes talking to someone who is happy and in a good mood lifts me up from a fog.

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 3:15 PM on Aug. 23, 2010

  • Nope... Because I don't have any bad feelings about myself :-)

    Answer by pixie_trix at 3:12 PM on Aug. 23, 2010

  • Nah, I just harp on them more. If I am feeling fat or sad, I will berate myself. If I am having a bad hair day, I will berate myself. I don't take it out on others. Just myself. I guess that is not much better.

    Answer by Izsarejman at 3:13 PM on Aug. 23, 2010

  • My sister is that way and I have a friend that is that way, The way they talk to people they do not know I just am stunned....then when I try to tell them they didn't need to be so mean just gets them going even more so needless to say I try not to be in public with either of them.

    Answer by togo90210 at 3:14 PM on Aug. 23, 2010

  • I don't think so, I am occassionally sarcastic but if its going to be hurtful or I know the person won't take it in the right tone, I suppose I keep it to myself for the most part.

    Answer by blessedwboysx3 at 4:00 PM on Aug. 23, 2010

  • nope. its just how i am. not a coverup.

    Answer by sati769leigh at 3:18 PM on Aug. 23, 2010

  • Nope,I'm just a sarcastic bitch. I don't feel bad about it at all!

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 3:13 PM on Aug. 23, 2010