DH and I have been married for nearly 13 years and we've certainly had our ups and downs. I'm at a point that I just can't see it anymore, its just blah. I guess I've stayed so long primarily to keep the family together and in the hopes that "some of those feelings" would come back. Can't help but feeling like I want to see what's out there. Not a cheater, so affair is not a option.
For those of you have have come close to or serious considered divorce for similar reasons and then chose to stay, how do you feel about that decision now? Do you feel like you are still missing out or realize you made the right choice?
Asked by Anonymous at 5:07 PM on Aug. 23, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by Scuba at 5:19 PM on Aug. 23, 2010
Answer by wildwiccan83 at 5:19 PM on Aug. 23, 2010
If your reason for leaving is "to see what is out there" I think that is a very selfish attitude. I think staying and working at least until your child is in college would be a better idea. Why rip apart your kids life and make them have to live in two homes because you are curious. I think you need to perhaps seek counseling and work on some other plan of action.
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