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boy and girl bathing together

is this okay? until what age? i would love to start bathing my kids together when my baby (3 months now) can sit in the tub with my son (21 months). i think it will help my bedtime routine out great, right now my hubby works 2nd so i have to give 2 seperate baths and 2 seperate bed times. i would love to bathe them both and send them to bed :)

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Asked by sweetjpea at 11:05 PM on Aug. 23, 2010 in Toddlers (1-2)

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  • I think it's fine until they get curious. My 3 yr old girl and 1 yr old boy still bath together.

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 11:06 PM on Aug. 23, 2010

  • I would bath them together until they were 3 and 5 maybe. I don't see a problem with it until they start noticing the differences and it makes them feel weird.

    Answer by SleepingBeautee at 11:07 PM on Aug. 23, 2010

  • I agree with sleeping beautee, I would say 3 and 5 are a good age to put a stop to it.

    Answer by hsmominky at 11:07 PM on Aug. 23, 2010

  • I agree with mommyoftwo388........ until they get curious. No hard age limit... go by how they act.

    Answer by sahlady at 11:10 PM on Aug. 23, 2010

  • My niece and my youngest son bathe together sometimes - though it's about time now to stop. He's 4 and she's 5 and up until this summer there wasn't much curiousity, but he especially is starting to be quite curious so I think we'll stop it.

    Answer by canadianmom1974 at 11:46 PM on Aug. 23, 2010

  • My Son & Daughter are two years a part they bathed together until she was 5 when she started Kindergarten , I started bathing them separate at that time for I just felt it was a good time.

    Answer by SCMomof2kids at 12:04 AM on Aug. 24, 2010

  • My mom once bathed my daughter with my younger brother (she was 1 he was 5). I can honestly say I flipped out. I didn't think it was okay and I was really upset that she did this without even asking first. My mom didn't see anything wrong with it though.

    Answer by scout_mom at 12:24 AM on Aug. 24, 2010

  • When my BIL and him daughter (about 7 months younger than my youngest). I would bath my 2 boys and my niece together. From when they where around 7months, 14months and 33month. Up until my oldest was 3 1/2 years old I stopped letting him bath with them. But continued letting my youngest son and niece bath together.

    Answer by Apple_Pie2010 at 2:55 AM on Aug. 24, 2010

  • I just stopped letting my kids bathe together and they are 3 and 5.

    Answer by BusyBee908 at 8:11 PM on Aug. 24, 2010

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