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How do you feel about people who cheat on their spouse, leave, marry the person they cheated with and live their life happy with the new person?

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bjane01

Asked by bjane01 at 9:50 AM on Aug. 24, 2010 in Relationships

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  • I personally think, once a cheater, always a cheater. Too bad for the new spouse, she probably trusts him and she'll probably get her heart broken too.
    momov4kids

    Answer by momov4kids at 9:52 AM on Aug. 24, 2010

  • I think they are a disrespectful pig. I also think they will never truly be happy. If you don't want to be with somebody divorce them then move on.
    babyfat5

    Answer by babyfat5 at 9:52 AM on Aug. 24, 2010

  • I have yet to personally know a person who that has worked out for. Usually they don't end up together mostly because of trust issues. I tend to believe in karma, what goes around comes around.
    sheli2007

    Answer by sheli2007 at 9:54 AM on Aug. 24, 2010

  • i think the odds are against them
    a relationship that comes from an affair is very likely to fail
    fiatpax

    Answer by fiatpax at 9:55 AM on Aug. 24, 2010

  • good for them, whatever makes em happy
    miritrose

    Answer by miritrose at 9:55 AM on Aug. 24, 2010

  • Disrespectful, inconsiderate and selfish.
    DesertRose75

    Answer by DesertRose75 at 9:56 AM on Aug. 24, 2010

  • I personally know 2 couples like this. They cheated and got together with the one they cheated with. They seem happy. 1 couple has been together over 15 years the other a few years.
    bjane01

    Comment by bjane01 (original poster) at 9:56 AM on Aug. 24, 2010

  • eh my Stepdad WAS the other man but he's nice and i've grown to accept him over the years (wasnt really his fault in any case, he was misled into thinking the divorce was finalized...difft story). It more of a struggle to look past it with my Mom and realize its ancient history and she's still the same woman I grew up with and love. But it does still hang there
    Zoeyis

    Answer by Zoeyis at 9:56 AM on Aug. 24, 2010

  • Im not sure if i like them. They chose one person, they should stay true to them
    janieishappy

    Answer by janieishappy at 9:57 AM on Aug. 24, 2010

  • I personally know 2 couples like this. They cheated and got together with the one they cheated with. They seem happy. 1 couple has been together over 15 years the other a few years.
    bjane01

    Comment by bjane01 (original poster) at 9:58 AM on Aug. 24, 2010

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