dont we all have a right to our privacy, can something be done legally if he does this to her?? she is 16, and adopted she deserves her privacy. everyone needs a place they can go to be alone. when i was a teenager my bedroom was my safe haven i hate to think of her losing hers, thanks!!!!!
Asked by Anonymous at 8:31 AM on Oct. 9, 2008 in General Parenting
Answer by BlueCollarMama at 10:43 AM on Oct. 9, 2008
My stepfather took the door off of my bedroom and CPS told him that he had to put the door back up. My stepfather was abusive and controlling. When I left my bedroom light on at night, he would destroy my bedroom the next day. He would literally take my droors out of my dresser and kick in the bottoms. He would shred my mattress and my clothes also. My dad bought me a music box when I was 4 and when I was 12 my stepdad smashed it because I wore one of his shirts by accident. Your daughter IS required to have privacy at that age.
Answer by AvasMommy810 at 8:38 AM on Oct. 9, 2008
Answer by Kimebs at 8:39 AM on Oct. 9, 2008
I say that if her "parents" are petty enough to take her bedroom door off then there is more going on than just that. LISTEN to your daughter and if she tells you that something is going on BELIEVE her! My mom chose to remain blind to what my stepdad did and I no longer associate with her now.
Answer by AvasMommy810 at 8:40 AM on Oct. 9, 2008
"It is not however, illegal."
It WAS in the 90s when I was a teenager. DHR/SS/CPS whatever you want to call it told him that he cannot remove my bedroom door as a form of punishment.
Answer by AvasMommy810 at 8:42 AM on Oct. 9, 2008
Answer by r_b at 8:42 AM on Oct. 9, 2008
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