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How often schould you have sex?

My husband wants to have sex every night? i did for a while. But i am so busy during the day , by that time i am whipped. what or how do you do i T?

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Mrs.Ro

Asked by Mrs.Ro at 3:53 PM on Aug. 24, 2010 in Relationships

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  • when hubby is home 2-3 times a week
    mommy_of_two388

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 3:53 PM on Aug. 24, 2010

  • We do it when we can/want to. When we BOTH are in agreement.
    butterflyblue19

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 3:54 PM on Aug. 24, 2010

  • He could do it every night but we do it whenever I feel like it lol. 4 times a week maybe?
    jessicarae787

    Answer by jessicarae787 at 3:54 PM on Aug. 24, 2010

  • well i just a twins, so rarely now
    janieishappy

    Answer by janieishappy at 3:57 PM on Aug. 24, 2010

  • When you both want to there doesn't have to be a set time. DO it whenever the mood strikes, if you can, even if you are a bit tired. My DH doesn't get home till about 4 am so we have to be a bit creative on the timing, find something that workds for both of you.
    countrygirl06

    Answer by countrygirl06 at 3:57 PM on Aug. 24, 2010

  • Whenever you want it
    mamaofficer

    Answer by mamaofficer at 4:03 PM on Aug. 24, 2010

  • When the mood is right. I don't think there is a right or wrong answer. As long as you and your husband both want it you should get it :-) if you don't want it you shouldn't because then it becomes a burden to you.
    MamaSarah1104

    Answer by MamaSarah1104 at 4:14 PM on Aug. 24, 2010

  • that sounds just like my husband i think i makes a diffrence if it is the quicky or real sex making love is the best but there are other ways maybe one night play around and not take it all the way and then the next night finish what was started u just have to change it up but if its tired that is the problem try doing it when u are most awake mid day or early mornning
    jimenez123415

    Answer by jimenez123415 at 4:31 PM on Aug. 24, 2010

  • depends on the week... some weeks it's several times a day some it's barely at all... there is no set amount of times you should have sex however, it is important that each partner respects the other's needs for both sex and to not have sex. explain what he can do to relieve some of the stress that is sapping your sex drive.
    figaro8895

    Answer by figaro8895 at 4:52 PM on Aug. 24, 2010

  • we haven't in over a month - it's just the way our schedules are - and we don't sleep in the same bed because he snores like crazy :)
    amw529

    Answer by amw529 at 5:00 PM on Aug. 24, 2010

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