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How soon after you started dating your DH/SO...

did you say I love you? How long after you started dating did you have sex? What if you have kids?

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Asked by Anonymous at 5:27 PM on Aug. 24, 2010 in Relationships

Answers (21)
  • 2 weeks,2 weeks,we didn't

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 5:28 PM on Aug. 24, 2010

  • we had sex the 3rd night we knew eachother, and said i love 2 weeks later.

    Answer by PURPULbutterfly at 5:28 PM on Aug. 24, 2010

  • I said "I love you" somewhere between 7 and 8 months of dating. We had sex on our 3rd date. I have children, not with him though so I'm not sure of the last question and what exactly you're asking.

    Answer by MeandMyBabes at 5:29 PM on Aug. 24, 2010

  • 2weeks, 1 month, 18 months.

    Answer by Courtney610 at 5:29 PM on Aug. 24, 2010

  • He told me before we started dating...we have known each other for 15 years and best friends for 8. I told him not long after. Since we had been friends for so long, sex was in the first couple weeks of actually dating. We both have kids but they didn't meet the other person or kid for 5 months and it was at a cook out so it was more laid back.

    Answer by Jademom07 at 5:29 PM on Aug. 24, 2010

  • We were together 2 months before he said I love you and then I said I love you. It was a little over 7 months before we had sex and I was 17 yrs. old. We had our first child when I was 19 and our second when I was 21. I am now almost 24 and going through a divorce because he said he felt like we had grown apart but in the long run I found out he had cheated on me. If you wanna know more u can send me a msg.

    Answer by mama2005 at 5:30 PM on Aug. 24, 2010

  • I love you - 3 weeks.
    sex - well... we worked together so we knew each other for a bit - but when we started dating it was only date # 2 I think...
    We waited 5 years to get married and 11 years to have a child :)

    Answer by maxsmom11807 at 5:31 PM on Aug. 24, 2010

  • We never dated. We were friends for 5 years, one day out of the blue he proposed, we got hitched down at the courthouse 38 minutes later, didn't have sex until the wedding night, didn't say I Love Yous until days later. We've been married for 11 years now.

    Answer by Fistandantalus at 5:32 PM on Aug. 24, 2010

  • We met in Japan, I was navy and he was a marine. So we had known eachother for awhile before started dating (starting dating Oct 01). We had sex within the first 2 weeks of dating, we said I love you 4 months and we got pregnant May 03.

    Answer by armywife81803 at 5:35 PM on Aug. 24, 2010

  • i told him i loved him after about 3 or 4 months..we didnt have sex though for about 8 months

    Answer by shay1130 at 5:36 PM on Aug. 24, 2010

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