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why do pple add or invite friends but not keep in touch...

i like to stay in touch wit my friends.. at least say hi when i see them come online..

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Patientchild3

Asked by Patientchild3 at 2:14 AM on Aug. 25, 2010 in Entertainment

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  • A few people have added me and I've never talked to them since. I don't know why they do this, maybe they are selling something?
    theutilitarian

    Answer by theutilitarian at 2:34 AM on Aug. 25, 2010

  • i think it just takes one to make the first effort to get to know one another... if u see me come online jus say hi and see whats up.. i dont see it as who can get as many friends as another...
    Patientchild3

    Comment by Patientchild3 (original poster) at 2:55 AM on Aug. 25, 2010

  • I've had people just add me without a hello even. I do try to put an effort to meeting people. But I must be doing something wrong.
    Apple_Pie2010

    Answer by Apple_Pie2010 at 6:05 AM on Aug. 25, 2010

  • I keep in touch as best I can - I have a few people as friends because we all played Latte Land but other than that we don't really have anything in common.
    Mommy_0f_many

    Answer by Mommy_0f_many at 8:20 AM on Aug. 25, 2010

  • I usually always say something to someone when they add me or I add them and see that accepted my invite. I usually say something like, "Thanks for the add. I hope you have a great week/weekend." If they never respond, I never write them back.
    poptart0325

    Answer by poptart0325 at 9:50 AM on Aug. 25, 2010

  • I have alot of people on my list and some of them I really do not remember who they are because we don't stay in touch at all. However there are a few I keep in the back of my mind because I know they are there for me when I need advice/help/support. When I see a person is online I don't reach out and say "hi" because I'm not as confident about doing so because they are probably busy and I don't want to be a bother.
    wheresthewayout

    Answer by wheresthewayout at 10:55 AM on Aug. 25, 2010

  • I tried a few times to talk to the people i invite only 3-5 people will speak to me. the rest i will delete. some people are late-nighter and will go off line if you speak to them.
    ymadaris2

    Answer by ymadaris2 at 5:36 PM on Aug. 25, 2010

  • well im a late niter and i always have my chat open... i always speak to my friends because to be on my friends list you will know me.... and thats in a good way.. to be honest
    Patientchild3

    Comment by Patientchild3 (original poster) at 7:37 PM on Aug. 25, 2010

  • Todays internet user seems to be all about how many friends they can rack up, not talking to them or getting to know them.
    vbruno

    Answer by vbruno at 7:37 PM on Aug. 27, 2010

  • thats what it seems like to me too... i mean what is the purpose really ladies... it dont make u cool if thats what your thinking
    Patientchild3

    Comment by Patientchild3 (original poster) at 7:39 PM on Aug. 27, 2010

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