After the birth of our first son (4 years ago) my sex drive went downhill a little. After my second son (2 1/2) it declined more - only had sex about 8 times & then I had a miscarriage last year & have not had sex since. I just have NO desire to have sex. I've tried but can't do it. Have been treated with depression meds & had hormones checked but still donn't want sex.
Last night my husband gave me a bc with a sleeping pill crushed up in it (unknown to me) waited for me to pass out & then tried to have sex with me. (AND videotape it as well!)
I did not take the BC & faked passing out to see what he would do because I suspected it happened a few weeks ago.
He says it was the first time, he's sorry & wants me to move on. I don't believe him anymore. I feel violated by my own husband but also feel like I did push him b/c I haven't had sex with him for over a year.
We don't have $ to go to a counsler/ therapist.
Asked by Anonymous at 9:17 AM on Aug. 25, 2010 in Relationships
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