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would you stay?

would you stay with your husband of 5 years if he was an alcoholic and verbally abusive?

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momof2girls757

Asked by momof2girls757 at 9:52 AM on Aug. 25, 2010 in Relationships

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Answers (21)
  • no
    Truelove77

    Answer by Truelove77 at 9:53 AM on Aug. 25, 2010

  • nope
    peanutsmommy1

    Answer by peanutsmommy1 at 9:53 AM on Aug. 25, 2010

  • Not if he wasn't actively pursuing counsiling to fix himself. AND, HE has to be the one that wants to change...not just going because I will leave him otherwise.
    Jademom07

    Answer by Jademom07 at 9:53 AM on Aug. 25, 2010

  • no
    DiscoveryToysJS

    Answer by DiscoveryToysJS at 9:54 AM on Aug. 25, 2010

  • If you love him.. I would try to get him him with his alcohol problem.. That's probably party of the verbal abuse too.
    SuperrMommyy

    Answer by SuperrMommyy at 9:54 AM on Aug. 25, 2010

  • NO...with or without kids.
    motherofpearls

    Answer by motherofpearls at 9:54 AM on Aug. 25, 2010

  • If he isn't attempting or willing to change himself to be a better husband, father and man... then I would be out the door in a heartbeat.
    Memigen

    Answer by Memigen at 9:55 AM on Aug. 25, 2010

  • He refuses counseling
    momof2girls757

    Comment by momof2girls757 (original poster) at 9:55 AM on Aug. 25, 2010

  • No
    shanlaree

    Answer by shanlaree at 9:55 AM on Aug. 25, 2010

  • He refuses counseling--then I would absolutely leave.!
    SuperrMommyy

    Answer by SuperrMommyy at 9:56 AM on Aug. 25, 2010

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