My df leaves friday for work. He will work 45 days and get 2 weeks home. We have a 2 yr old, a 1 yr old (her 1st bday is tommorrow) and I am 39 weeks preggers with our 3rd child! I really want him to be here for the birth but this baby wont come out and tommorrow is my dd's bday and then he leaves. I am very depressed about it, but our family really needs the money. I dont know what to do. I feel very selfish and self centered for not really wanting him to go. His mom is trying to make him feel guilty, even more than he does, so he wont go. I just dont know what to do. If this baby isnt born by friday then he will meet his son when he is 6 weeks old :( I just dont know what to do or how to handle this!
Answer by twinmama2five at 10:56 AM on Aug. 25, 2010