Do you mean you received a message in your e-mail saying that you have a new message from the CafeMom Team? Any messages left for you will be in your inbox. Like, right now I can scroll to the very top of the page, and next to where it gives the option to log out (top right hand corner) it also says "view messages".
And I do not think that you can send messages anonymously, so their name should be right there, as a link that you can click on and it will go to their page.
Hope that helped!
at 12:43 PM on Oct. 9, 2008