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private parts help???

my six year old cousin will not stop touching her sisters "peep", first it started when they would take tubbys together but my aunt has stopped that, but now she does it all the time, just monday me, my aunt, and my cousins aunt were folding laundry when she came up to me and placed a hand in front and behind and groped me i yelled at her and her mom sent her to her room, she knows it is wrong but wont stop, what can i do to help??

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mommynbabygirl

Asked by mommynbabygirl at 12:31 PM on Oct. 9, 2008 in School-Age Kids (5-8)

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  • Has her mom talked 2 her about it being inappropriate?
    LovingParent08

    Answer by LovingParent08 at 12:38 PM on Oct. 9, 2008

  • I think you need to be concerned that this child was possibly molested by someone. Children who have been molested will mimic what was done to them. I would ask questions such as why are you doing this or after it is done why did you do that? Ask the child why she thinks this is OK? I'm sorry but children do not do things like this for no reason, either someone has done it to her or she saw something her little eyes should have not seen.

    Peace, <>
    JoyceTN

    Answer by JoyceTN at 12:39 PM on Oct. 9, 2008

  • I agree w/ JoyceTN that there's a BIG CHANCE that he/she has either been molested or has been exposed 2 adult behavior. Her mother needs 2 talk 2 her 2 find out exactly what happened or is happening bc yes children experiment & r curious but not 2 this extent. I would suggest the mother 2 get him/her 2 his/her dr. & c what they say & if they can't help (which I don't c ne reason y they wouldn't) ask them 4 a referral & get him/her in2 sum1 2 talk 2.
    LovingParent08

    Answer by LovingParent08 at 12:52 PM on Oct. 9, 2008

  • I agree with the other posters, it's alarming that this little girl would be doing this. I would definitely suspect something very wrong. This little girl needs help.
    hibicent

    Answer by hibicent at 1:56 PM on Oct. 9, 2008

  • Follow you instincts and seek counseling to get more information....
    JCRestoredme

    Answer by JCRestoredme at 6:13 PM on Oct. 9, 2008

  • When i first read this, my first thought was what Joyce wrote and I agree with her 100%
    Kat122

    Answer by Kat122 at 6:30 PM on Oct. 9, 2008

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