I've been controlled, and manipulated by a man for 4.5 years. I left him but never cut ties with him partly because we have a child and partly because I was scared to let go. I thought I couldn't get any better, I convinced myself that he was my only shot at love and that it was ME who blew it, not him. But in reality he used me, abused me mentally, and drained me of any self confidence I had. He ruined my relationship with my friends and family. He rid me of all my dreams and ambition. When I left, I felt like I would die...I loved him, despite all he did to me. But deep down I knew how twisted that was...to love someone who did nothing but bring me down. Well today, I finally told him I was done with him...told him if it didn't involve our daughter that I wanted no contact with him. He has a girl and he was sneaking around to call and see me. I never did anything sexual with him but it was still wrong.Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 11:39 PM on Aug. 25, 2010 in Relationships
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