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Do u tell ur FWB ur prego or jus break it off & decide on ur own?

I do honestly no w/o question that he'd b there 4the child & me as well. We've been involved since hs, he went outta state 2college. He'd always come 2visit when he was in town. Of course our lives took us dn different paths EVEN so we'd stay in touch. I was internin & lost our child. We kinda drifted after that. FB-omg! It's a TOTAL reunion on there. Of course he has a child now. We've been intimate every week since we've reunited. Last wk, he seemed distant. I questioned him about it-he jus dn played it. My thoughts of his distant were correct. I received a call-it his BM informin me of his sleep patterns & odd behavior. She "warned" I'm betta NOT be havin no babbies etc & yadayada. I don't see myself being involved in such a situation. I told myself that could easiliy have been me on the other end of that call. I'd call someone "my man" while knowing WHICH #2 phone? Knowin he's having unprotected sex? That doesn't sound rt.

 
Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 1:01 AM on Aug. 26, 2010 in Relationships

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Answers (9)
  • Yess u should tell him know...
    TezMoM

    Answer by TezMoM at 2:25 AM on Aug. 26, 2010

  • What does fwb mean?
    LoveU4Eva

    Answer by LoveU4Eva at 1:06 AM on Aug. 26, 2010

  • I have no idea what you are asking.
    lovinangels

    Answer by lovinangels at 1:08 AM on Aug. 26, 2010

  • Ok so your description confused the hell out of me. But from the title I say tell him. Whether you chose to keep the baby or not, its still his child and he has the right to know.
    reigndrops12689

    Answer by reigndrops12689 at 1:13 AM on Aug. 26, 2010

  • Fwb is friends with benefits. Basically a sex partner, no strings attached.
    reigndrops12689

    Answer by reigndrops12689 at 1:15 AM on Aug. 26, 2010

  • If your pregnant with his kid you need to tell him. His "baby momma" has no say in what he does or doesn't do. I mean unless she is still sleeping with him as well. But if you and him are friends and been having un protected sex he knew you getting pregnant was a risk. And what does FWB mean. Future would be boyfriend is what my guess is but I'm not sure.
    tyra618

    Answer by tyra618 at 1:16 AM on Aug. 26, 2010

  • and I meant sleeping with HER as well not sleeping with him. Sorry about that.
    tyra618

    Answer by tyra618 at 1:17 AM on Aug. 26, 2010

  • This is a very confusing post. What is FWB?
    hsmominky

    Answer by hsmominky at 1:43 AM on Aug. 26, 2010

  • For the love of Lori Laughlin, write in English if you want your question answered.
    Fistandantalus

    Answer by Fistandantalus at 9:11 AM on Aug. 26, 2010

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