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I've been separated from my husband for almost 3 years now. But we are living under the same roof because of our bad economical situation and I am just scared to death to break free from this and make it on my own with 4 kids ages 10,8,7,4 yrs old. I have so many obstacles, like how do pay for rent, bills, I have no car! etc..I have never worked since high school, I have no work experience. I depend on his low income to make ends meet. And I am so tired of it. And he treats me like sh*t because of this. I also need to add that I have been seeing someone for the past 2 and a half years and now I just found out I'm pregnant by him!! I just need to know if someone could share some mature advice please without critisizing or bashing please! I am so depressed to be in this situation, I don't know what to do!!...Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 5:58 PM on Aug. 26, 2010 in Relationships
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Answer by hsmominky at 1:22 AM on Aug. 27, 2010
i have to agree with colethky. you have been separated for 3 years and instead of looking for a job, going to school or trying to find a way to get your ish together, you decide to find a man sleep with him and get pregnant? just look at that and replay it back to yourself. why cant you move in with the new baby daddy? if he can have sex with you, he should be able to take care of you. you are about to have 4 kids, you REALLY need to get yourself together and come up with a plan, stop being dependent upon men and find a way to better yourself. this is so sad. im really not trying to bash, but this is the time you need to put your big girl panties and start making moves for yourself and your kids.
Answer by 3xangel at 5:29 PM on Aug. 27, 2010