My husband of 5 years and father of our 2 children left a year ago... no contact at all .....
He started acting like another person, very mad all of the time, he became very mentally cruel to me and basically started acting like our 1 year old and 3 year old didnt exsist.......
I had alot of money saved from before we got married... he basically said for * a large amount* he would sign his rights over to the kids and we will never have to hear from him again.... I came home one day and he was just gone... he did take almost $5,000 out of the bank account, but that is no where near the amount he said he wants.. he also didnt sign over his rights or anything like that - just left with a note saying he was out of our lives.
But I now hear ( around our small town) that he has been contacting old friends and his family to get info about me and the kids & now I am worried he will try to see them....
Asked by Anonymous at 10:34 PM on Aug. 26, 2010 in Parenting Debate
Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 10:37 PM on Aug. 26, 2010
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Answer by matthewscandi at 9:04 AM on Aug. 27, 2010
That is called abandonment and if you have any significant proof, take it to court and get full custody. You shouldn't have to buy your own children. Tell him if he agrees you will not go after back child support, which you could in most states. Should he insist on getting your money tell him you will sue for child support plus medical care......that should scare him into doing about anything you want, but please don't take him back. What he did was unconscionable.
Answer by zbee at 1:27 PM on Aug. 28, 2010