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are you married and do you flirt with other men..is it okay or not ...and why

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jesslovesyou08

Asked by jesslovesyou08 at 10:59 PM on Aug. 26, 2010 in Relationships

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  • No I don't flirt or at least I don't think so.
    mommy_of_two388

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 11:01 PM on Aug. 26, 2010

  • Yes I am married, no I don't flirt, and no it's not ok. The only guy I need attention from is my husband.
    Namaste17

    Answer by Namaste17 at 11:04 PM on Aug. 26, 2010

  • I'm married and no I don't flirt with other men. If good friends, or one of my brothers-in-law, I'll tease them or whatever, but that's it.
    montanagal2005

    Answer by montanagal2005 at 11:04 PM on Aug. 26, 2010

  • Not OK. From here on out it's you and your man, no one else. Neither you nor him should give the other one cause to wonder about yours or his faithfulness to your relationship.
    Biz1985

    Answer by Biz1985 at 11:04 PM on Aug. 26, 2010

  • Define flirt. If a guy comes up to me and starts talking I don't automatically turn him away because I'm married (unless he's a dick anyway) but I don't ever lead anyone on and I would never hide my status. I will hold a conversation with someone genuinely trying to be nice to me but once if I start to feel uncomfortable all stops. I know my boundaries and never cross them.
    jessicarae787

    Answer by jessicarae787 at 11:06 PM on Aug. 26, 2010

  • I'd like to add that my job in marketing/promotions pretty much demands that I know how to conversate with random people and keep their interest. So this just comes as a habit I guess even when I'm not at work. But I never pass any sexual innuendos or try to make anyone think I'm interested in more than conversation.
    jessicarae787

    Answer by jessicarae787 at 11:09 PM on Aug. 26, 2010

  • yes i'm married and hell no i do not.
    figaro8895

    Answer by figaro8895 at 11:19 PM on Aug. 26, 2010

  • oops forgot to respond to part ii... i think that presenting yourself as physically and/or emotionally available while in a committed relationship is a no-no.
    figaro8895

    Answer by figaro8895 at 11:20 PM on Aug. 26, 2010

  • married, don't flirt. i would expect the same kind of treatment and respect back.
    melody77

    Answer by melody77 at 11:29 PM on Aug. 26, 2010

  • Yes I am married, and no I do not flirt with anyone other than my husband. No Ido not feel it is ok for me, and my Marriage. It is just not something I have a desire for or feel that I need to do.
    RheaF

    Answer by RheaF at 12:59 AM on Aug. 27, 2010

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