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I need some ideas to spice it up and make it different! adult content

Hey ladies I'm looking for some good ways to spice up sex tonight. I want to make it fun and exciting and suprising and something he won't forget for a long time!

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Asked by Anonymous at 7:45 PM on Aug. 27, 2010 in Relationships

Answers (12)
  • toys? if you have any

    Answer by janieishappy at 7:46 PM on Aug. 27, 2010

  • BDSM- you r mistress and he is ur slave, or vice versa

    Answer by ganna04 at 7:47 PM on Aug. 27, 2010

  • ok what ur idea of spice

    Answer by FreeSpriT4eva at 7:47 PM on Aug. 27, 2010

  • Do something that he has wanted to do but you dont really care for. My df left for work today and will be in another state for 6 weeks so I let him do something that he has been begging me to do since we started dating.

    Answer by SabrenaLeigh at 7:47 PM on Aug. 27, 2010

  • I don't have any toys :-( spicing it up would be anything outside of sex and oral really. My problem is I always ask if he has any fantasies and the only thing he ever says is for me to lick him after we've had sex lol. So I could do that, but I want to build it up before we get to that point.

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 7:50 PM on Aug. 27, 2010

  • Sit for a second, close your eyes and think what YOU want. Do not ask him. When you see it in your mind think what u really want to do with him. Then do it, without asking much- tell him what you doing and continue....

    Answer by ganna04 at 8:16 PM on Aug. 27, 2010

  • i once wore only his tie. we have been talking about pretending that we area strangers go to a sushi bar and pick each other up. of course i wouldn't wear any underwear.

    Answer by melody77 at 8:29 PM on Aug. 27, 2010

  • Take control. Tell him exactly what you're going to do to him. Don't take no for an answer. Tease him for a long time before you actually give him anything, maybe even tell him to pleasure you, and how. It's all about confidence! Act like you're the sexiest woman on earth and he'll soon believe you...

    Answer by SarahBel at 8:59 PM on Aug. 27, 2010

  • Roll playing can be quite fun! Maybe try a different position? Or in another room of the house? Anything out of the ordinary for you will be a surprise to him.

    Answer by Kword at 9:50 PM on Aug. 27, 2010

  • Role play like student teacher or bondage

    Answer by noahsmommy12908 at 12:11 AM on Aug. 28, 2010

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