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What do you thing of having sex in a first Date?

I really will like to know what other woman think of having sex in a first date or a simple nightstand? It is okey with you Yes or no An why?

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 10:45 PM on Aug. 27, 2010 in Relationships

Answers (24)
  • Bad idea.
    Joeygoat

    Answer by Joeygoat at 10:47 PM on Aug. 27, 2010

  • I honestly can't look down my nose at anyone who does this or has done this, because I know I was young and dumb and made decisions like that in the past. I just take all of my experiences and mistakes and learn from them.
    Eviesmommy

    Answer by Eviesmommy at 10:47 PM on Aug. 27, 2010

  • Everyone makes mistakes in life and who am I to judge them..
    Mazie0723

    Answer by Mazie0723 at 10:49 PM on Aug. 27, 2010

  • I've never seen a reason to wait. If the sex isn't any good he's not getting a second date.
    SabrinaMBowen

    Answer by SabrinaMBowen at 10:50 PM on Aug. 27, 2010

  • imo it's not a big deal
    princessbeth79

    Answer by princessbeth79 at 10:50 PM on Aug. 27, 2010

  • Hell, my husband started as a one night stand...
    SabrinaMBowen

    Answer by SabrinaMBowen at 10:51 PM on Aug. 27, 2010

  • I only ever did it w/ 1 night stands.... never a LTR. and my husband of 6 1/2 years? we didn't make love til our wedding night!!!!
    hibbingmom

    Answer by hibbingmom at 10:51 PM on Aug. 27, 2010

  • Dumb, bad, usually has a poor outcome for all parties...cheap too. I've made my own mistakes, so I'm not judging others with no experience and I'm here to tell you it IS stupid and never really goes anywhere or ends well or leaves people feeling good.
    AshleyBDG

    Answer by AshleyBDG at 10:56 PM on Aug. 27, 2010

  • If you knew them before and then start dating...could happen.
    kkleywegt41

    Answer by kkleywegt41 at 10:56 PM on Aug. 27, 2010

  • It took us a months before me & my EX to have sex. After 3 yr and we had broke up and we have a child. Now after 6 .5 month separate I decided to go out in a date Not sure of having sex. As per my experience with my son's father waiting does not guarantee happiness neither a long time relationship.
    zip10469

    Answer by zip10469 at 10:57 PM on Aug. 27, 2010

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