My daughter did not want stuff for hers. She wanted to go skydiving since you had to be 18 to tandem in our state. So Grandma got her the flight jump, and I got her a really nice set of steel pots and pans for her new apartment. She is starting college off-campus and I know she prefers that type. I hoped it made her feel grown-up and like I respected her as an emerging adult, which is what she really wanted.