my problem is for years my man has been very negative about the subject of marriage. when i say negative i mean negative. when it comes to this subject we argue about everything from the ceremony to the ring. to him everything is bullshit. now after all these years of being with me he wakes up one day and has an ephiphany that he wants to get married. i've known this man for 14 years. my attitude is i don't trust it. i mean why after all these years what's so different now. i'm still the same person i was 14 years ago. now he tries to use the points i made about marriage to him to me. and when he does i bring up all the negative shit he bought up about marriage. the other day the subject came up again and do you know he had the nerve to say " when we get married don't tell nobody". HUH? what's the purpose, are you ashamed of me if so just leave me alone.Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 3:55 AM on Aug. 28, 2010 in Relationships
He sounds to me that maybe he opened his eyes to a few things. But I would tell you he sounds like an ass and if i am gonna marry someone I am gonna tell the WORLD and that's what I get what you would like to do. I would really give him two choices marry me and we spend our lives together or leave and don't look back when you realize you just lost the best women in the world. GL momma
Answer by raemommy at 4:07 AM on Aug. 28, 2010
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Answer by mamaofficer at 4:46 AM on Aug. 28, 2010
He may have started talking about it when you stopped talking about it. Having said that, don't understand at all why he wants to keep it a secret. What's his problem?????? And it sounds like he has one to me.
Answer by zbee at 5:00 AM on Aug. 28, 2010
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