My 19 yr use to do volunteer services for the city when live in. Now she does nothing no college no job. I'm tired of her lazy a**.
I ask her to do simply chores around the house and she acts like she doesn't listen to me.
Yes we pay for gas, insurance, car is pd off, cell phone, and her food. She doesn't pay rent.
She's not attempting to do anything with her life except to live with a guy....
that's a different story
She dropped out of a private college and "WE" have her loan. More debt on our part. No she doesn't help us out with the either. She tells me when she joins the service or gets a job that loan is ours not hers.
Asked by Anonymous at 11:19 AM on Aug. 28, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by CABlonde at 11:21 AM on Aug. 28, 2010
Answer by mommy11260 at 11:23 AM on Aug. 28, 2010
So she is leaving soon? If not, give her a time frame to either get a job and contribute or get the eff out of your home. Good luck, and sometimes they just need a big huge push out of the nest:)
Answer by shanlaree at 11:23 AM on Aug. 28, 2010
Answer by charlotsomtimes at 11:23 AM on Aug. 28, 2010
Of course she's home living off you, your allowing her to. Trust me your not doing her any favors with what your doing. She'd find a job and get her ass out ASAP if she were mine. You need to let go and let her do for herself and get her out on her own. Not easy, but tough love and she sure needs it........Good luck with this one.
Answer by zbee at 11:26 AM on Aug. 28, 2010
Answer by HotMama330 at 11:33 AM on Aug. 28, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 12:07 PM on Aug. 28, 2010
Answer by bvannkissy at 2:36 PM on Aug. 28, 2010