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Why are man so controlling

Why are man so controlling. Do you think that healthy for a relationship. How can you change a man like that ?

 
elisabellaguna

Asked by elisabellaguna at 12:33 PM on Aug. 28, 2010 in Relationships

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  • You can't change a man, they need to change on their own.
    No I don't think it's a healthy relationship if that man's controlling and I honestly cant tell you why they are like that. Maybe they are brought up that way or maybe because they still have that cave man gene in them.
    mommy_of_two388

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 12:34 PM on Aug. 28, 2010

  • You change it by finding a different man.
    lovinangels

    Answer by lovinangels at 12:33 PM on Aug. 28, 2010

  • Its called the Male Defective Gene Disorder...which has no cure!

    WoodWitch

    Answer by WoodWitch at 12:41 PM on Aug. 28, 2010

  • Not all men are like this and unfortunatly you cannot change him. A man (or woman) has to WANT to change for it to actually happen. The best advice I can give you is either accept him for who he is and work on the issues at hand or find a man who loves you for you and doens't want to control you. Good luck:)
    worriedmommy600

    Answer by worriedmommy600 at 12:42 PM on Aug. 28, 2010

  • Not all men are like that, if you don't like your s/o's behavior then find someone else.
    matthewscandi

    Answer by matthewscandi at 12:51 PM on Aug. 28, 2010

  • My man is not controlling. I play music in bars and he supports me and is proud of me!
    Musicmom80

    Answer by Musicmom80 at 1:00 PM on Aug. 28, 2010

  • My man is controlling but he's getting better about it.Also...if you love your man,why doyou want to change him?If you love him,you help him with his issues.Not try to change him.
    bvannkissy

    Answer by bvannkissy at 1:23 PM on Aug. 28, 2010

  • oooh ooooh!lol Usually when a person is controlling it's because they have a deep fear of not having control. Insecurity.
    Musicmom80

    Answer by Musicmom80 at 1:55 PM on Aug. 28, 2010

  • cant change them nor will they ever work on it...not good in a relationship...GET OUT
    kkleywegt41

    Answer by kkleywegt41 at 2:47 PM on Aug. 28, 2010

  • lol I agree100%
    elisabellaguna

    Comment by elisabellaguna (original poster) at 12:37 PM on Aug. 28, 2010

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