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What do you do when you get mad at your SO/DH?

1) give him the silent treatment.
2) yell at him.
3) ignore him/pretend that he's not there.
4) other.

 
Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 5:25 PM on Aug. 28, 2010 in Relationships

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Answers (19)
  • #4 should have been ALL OF THE ABOVE....
    WoodWitch

    Answer by WoodWitch at 5:52 PM on Aug. 28, 2010

  • We would talk it out.
    lovesergei

    Answer by lovesergei at 5:25 PM on Aug. 28, 2010

  • I usually end up writing him/messaging him. I can't do face to face confrontation...
    bandgeek521

    Answer by bandgeek521 at 6:01 PM on Aug. 28, 2010

  • it really depends on alot of factors as to what the issue is, how much sleep i've had, etc. i've learned to choose my battles. when i get mad, i first check myself to see whether it's really about me or about him... i gauge the importance. if i'm not ready to have a conversation without expressing anger inappropriately, i let it lie until i am. if i can't stand to be around him because i'm pissed, i go in the other room and take time to myself. there are times when i just let it fly - this is usually when he is being especially assholish or has done multiple things to get on my nerves or i'm overtired...
    figaro8895

    Answer by figaro8895 at 8:26 PM on Aug. 28, 2010

  • depends on how mad I am at him..
    bcauseimthemom

    Answer by bcauseimthemom at 5:42 PM on Aug. 28, 2010

  • I yell at him at first, but then if he doesn't want to listen and he makes me mad enough I ignore him lol
    mommy5409

    Answer by mommy5409 at 5:42 PM on Aug. 28, 2010

  • say... in a normal voice... "hey, I'm pissed at you." He would then say way, and then I would tell him, and then we would see if theirs a resolution. Yelling/silent treatment accomplish nothing other than building hostility and resentment to each other
    karamille

    Answer by karamille at 5:47 PM on Aug. 28, 2010

  • If you are that mad, say you are going for a walk and go for a walk to cool down
    karamille

    Answer by karamille at 5:48 PM on Aug. 28, 2010

  • i dont talk for awhile
    Patience909

    Answer by Patience909 at 5:54 PM on Aug. 28, 2010

  • Depends on what I'm mad about.
    More then most it happens like this .I say my piece and then I stew quietly for a while. Then either we talk it out or on rare occassions it blows up and we fight.
    JazzlikeMraz

    Answer by JazzlikeMraz at 7:49 PM on Aug. 28, 2010

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