You've been together for nearly 10 years, but the last two have been the worst. You hardly get along anymore. The lack of love you feel from your DH has pretty much made you feel the same way......you just don't love him anymore. And he refuses to go to counseling. You have five children together. Do you keep fighting for your marriage? Do you move on?
Asked by Anonymous at 1:27 AM on Aug. 29, 2010 in Relationships
DOES HE SEE THAT THERE ISNT THAT CONNECTION ANYMORE OR HE JUST GOES ABOU THIS DAY LIKE EVERYTHING STILL THE SAME? IF AND ONLY IF YOU THINK YOU HAVE EVEN AN OUNCE OF LOVE FOR HIM STILL THEN YES FIGHT FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND SIT HIM DOWN TALK TO HIM WHOLE HEARTEDLY AND ASK HIM IF THERES ANY LOVE STILL IF ITS YES THEN TELL HIM THAT YOU WILL SCHEDULE A SESSION SO YOU ALL CAN REKINDLE THAT FIRE YOU ALL ONCE HAD FOR EACH OTHER. 10 YRS IS LONG AND YOU ALL HAVE TO SEE THE BIG BLESSINGS YOU ALL HAVE THROUGHOUT UR MARRIAGE...YOUR 5 CHILDREN...NOT THAT JUST CUZ U ALL HAVE KIDS U SHOULD STAY TOGETHER IT MORE LIKE YOU GOTTA FIGURE THINGS OUT SO THE KIDS DONT HAVE TO SEE THE WAYS YOU ALL ARE WITH EACH OTHER...KIDS NOTICE THESE THINGS AND YOU DONT WANT THEM TO FEEL AS IF ITS THER FAULT SO TELL HIM HE NEEDS TO ACT ON THE SITUATION FOR NOT JUS UR ALLS SAKE BUT FOR THE KIDS TOO. JUST TRY NOT TO BRING IT TO AN ARGUMENT...
Answer by GUDMOMMY86 at 1:40 AM on Aug. 29, 2010
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