i gave my son up for adoption and i havent been happy for a year now i cant move foward and im stuck in the past. and now im about to have another baby please help someoneAnswer Question
Hugs, I can relate to your situation. My dd gave up her son for adoption and his birthday is next week. I fully supported her choice and she is okay with her choice, too. She was the victim of date rape at age 15 years old. I know this does not ease your hurt, but know that the choice you made was the best one for your child at that time.
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Answer by L.A.F.outloud at 2:06 PM on Aug. 29, 2010
Firstly, I'm very sorry for you loss.
Since your baby is only 15 months old, I'd hardly say you're stuck in the past, that's pretty present. You've lost a child, that's not an easy thing to get over. What you need is grief counselling and support. Where do you live? maybe we can point you towards a support group or a therapist that specializes in adoption issues. Regular therapists often have no idea about adoption related grief.
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