I wrote here a couple of week ago about my husband cheating on me. He's a military man and he's been seeing this young lady. A couple of days ago, he's been instant messaging me how much he loves me and wants to make things work. Just yesterday, he wrote a long paragraph while drunk telling me how he misses me and it kills him inside how stopped talking to him and he wants our marriage to work. A couple of hours ago, his skank message me on facebook teling me how he's her "man" and I need to get over it. I warned her a couple of weeks back about him but of course she ignored it. I contacted my M-I-L and she told the girl to call her. She spoke with the girl and made her cry. She told her the truth about how my husband is only using her. He calls his mom and he told his skank and his mom that he was still in love with me. Now I don't know if I should still divorce him or see a marriage counselor. I still love him...
Asked by Anonymous at 3:56 AM on Aug. 29, 2010 in Relationships
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Answer by litlfut26 at 6:40 AM on Aug. 29, 2010
The above is a link to Military One Source, a 24/7 service for all military branches and their families. 1-800-342-9647
If the woman he is cheating with is also on active duty, both of them are in trouble. That really gets under commanders skin. I hope he can come to his senses and realize that you and your family and your marriage is worth fighting for. If this skank won't leave him alone, put a restraining order out against her. And if she is active duty, contact her commanding officer, that will set it straight. If it does go to divorce, look up your state laws, you can sue the skank for alienation of affection and she will pay dearly for that.
Answer by Joeygoat at 7:32 AM on Aug. 29, 2010
Answer by JazzlikeMraz at 9:17 AM on Aug. 29, 2010
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